"We re-open our
doors for toxic people and call it seeking closure."
Depending on the
person you’ve been dealing with, closure may or may not happen.
Some people will
never give you the answers or the validation that you crave, even if you
deserve it. They will never express the remorse you long for them to feel. They
don’t care. They’re selfish and you have to just let them go.
I remember waiting every day for a message giving me answers
to the questions I couldn’t answer. Why did this happen to me? Why don’t you
love me? Why are you hurting me? Every night I laid in bed wondering when I’d
be able to ask you those questions but the time never came. Eventually I had to
figure out the answers to the questions myself.
Unfortunately this life we live in doesn't come with a manual. It isn't a movie or a book and not everything that begins will get a proper ending. Sometimes you have to create write your own ending and create your own happily ever after with or without them.
They left for a reason, therefore don't re-open the door thinking that things will change or that they will help you finish your story. It is YOUR story, you must decide where it goes from here. Leave closed doors closed and continue to move forward.
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