Sharing your story..

I've been with multiple people who "catch feelings" or think that every s i n g l e thing I have ever written about relates to them. It usually begins with "Is that post about me..!?"

No one ever wants to be spoken about in a bad way, but it will happen regardless. However, once someone does something to you, it becomes yours, so why not OWN IT. Example; you were in a relationship where someone cheated and now you want to write a story about it. The person you're writing about may get upset but honestly what does that matter!? THEY ALREADY CHEATED, it should be obvious that they didn't care about your feelings plus how you choose to express your feelings, is your choice.

Now.. I understand that not every thing needs to be written and shared but thats exactly my point. If someone who treated me badly comes across any of my post, their first thought shouldn't be "wow, she's so hurt, she wrote all of this about me." haha. Because I can guarantee you that its most likely not even about you. I want you to actually read my work and say "wow, she's a great writer and yeah she's been hurt but she turned her pain into power."

Moral of this rant is: Don't ever be afraid to share your story, whether it be good or bad. Our experiences in life make us who we are. Each one of us has our own journey and we have to figure this thing called life out all by ourselves. However, you never know how sharing your story with someone can change their life. Don't be ashamed of your failures, your bad relationships, ugly pictures from the past..

 Let them push you forward;

and 

let you be the best person you could be!